Dear Annie:
Last summer my son got engaged. They set a wedding date for late summer. However, she became pregnant, so they are now planning to marry sooner at the local courthouse. But they still want to have their marriage blessed in church, so they intend to renew their vows on the original wedding date, with the minister who had planned to marry them.
What do people do? By the time of the vow renewal, the baby will be three weeks old. They are going to have the white dress, bridesmaids (dresses are already bought), guys in tuxes and 200 guests, with an informal reception at a park. I am not sure their plans are in good taste or appropriate for the circumstances. Am I being too old-fashioned? - Woes in WashingtonDear Woes:
A little. An unplanned pregnancy used to mean a forced shotgun wedding, but that isn't the case here. Your son isn't hiding his marriage, but the couple would still like to celebrate and the arrangements have already been made and, in some cases, paid for. Renewing their vows is a perfectly legitimate way to do this. Stop worrying about what others will think and enjoy the moment.
to get engaged 訂婚courthouse (n.) 法院to renew (v.) 重做;重訂minister (n.) 牧師;神職人員bridesmaid (n.) 伴娘、女儐相reception (n.) 接待處;宴會circumstance (n.) 情況;情勢old-fashioned 老古板;守舊者shotgun wedding 奉兒女之命結(jié)婚;(因女方懷孕)被迫舉行的婚禮legitimate (adj.) 合法的;正當?shù)?/p>