英語美文朗讀 第531期 Creat the best version of yourself
The best revenge is actually not taking any revenge at all. It's not even holding on to any anger at all. It's moving on with your life. It's showing them that life is so much better after they're gone.
最好的報(bào)復(fù)，就是根本不去報(bào)復(fù)，完全不生氣，繼續(xù)過自己的生活，讓你恨的人看到，沒有了他們，你的生活變得更加美好了。
Having an excuse or a story of why they aren't where they want to be gets them sympathy from others. The victim role gives them comfort. And it is much easier than taking responsibility and moving on with their life. However, it is not, and will never be a happy place to stay.
人們沒有實(shí)現(xiàn)自己的目標(biāo)，就會用借口來解釋，向別人訴說自己的痛苦經(jīng)歷，這樣，別人就會同情他們。作為受害者，這個身份讓人們感到安心。相比之下，如果要去承擔(dān)責(zé)任，繼續(xù)生活，這比當(dāng)個受害者難多了。然而，當(dāng)個受害者，并不會讓事情變得輕松，長此以往，你也不會感到快樂。
Those who take responsibility for their life and are wanting to move on and put the past behind them are much more likely to gain freedom, success and happiness. Now, this does not mean there aren't horrible people in the world that have done wrong by others.
為自己的人生負(fù)責(zé)的人，想放下過去、繼續(xù)前行的人，他們更容易獲得自由，成功，快樂。這不是說，那些冤枉別人、誤解別人的人，是不存在的。
It is not condoning other's behavior. It is taking back the power they have from you, when you are the one suffering long after they are gone.
我的意思是，我們不能容忍他人的不良行為。如果，他們消失之后，我們?nèi)匀桓械酵纯?，那么，我們就要奪回他們從我們身上帶走的能量。
Who wins if you keep blaming them? Who wins if you move on, forget about them and create the best life and success you could ever imagine? Who wins if you move on? Who wins if you forget about them? Who wins if you create your best ever life, full of success and abundance? You win!
如果，你一直怪罪他們，誰是贏家?如果，你繼續(xù)前行，忘掉他們，創(chuàng)造最美好的人生，獲取最大的成功，誰是贏家?如果，你繼續(xù)前行，誰是贏家?如果，你忘掉他們，誰是贏家?如果，你創(chuàng)造了最美好的人生，成為人生贏家，擁有豐富的生活，誰是贏家?是你!你是贏家!
How good does it feel to take that baggage off your shoulders? To focus on building your future. What a blessing! Let go. Move forward. Never look back. The best revenge is not taking any revenge. It is simply moving on with your life, creating the best version of yourself.
如果你放下包袱，這種感覺會有多棒?專注于創(chuàng)造自己的未來，這是多么幸福的事情!放下過去吧，繼續(xù)前行吧，永遠(yuǎn)不要回頭看。最好的報(bào)復(fù)，就是不要報(bào)復(fù)，而是繼續(xù)前行，創(chuàng)造最好的自己。
