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Two students started quarreling at school.One student shouted dirty words at the other,and a fight began.
What can be done to stop fights like this at school?In some schools,the disputants sit down with peer mediators.Peer mediators are students with special training in this kind of problems.
Peer mediators help the disputants to talk in a friendly way.Here are some of the ways they use:
1.Put what you think clearly but don't say anything to hurt the other.Begin with“I feel…”instead of“You always…”.
2.Listen carefully to what the other person is saying.Don't stop the other person's words.
3.Keep looking at the other person's eyes when he or she talks.
4.Try to see the other person's side of the problem.
5.Never put anyone down.Saying things like“You are foolish”makes the talk difficult.
6.Try to find a result that makes both people happy.
Peer mediators never decide the result or the winner.They don't decide who is right and who is wrong.Instead,they help the two students to find their own“win-win”result.A“win-win”result can make everyone feel good.
Peer mediators' work is often successful just because it gets people to talk to each other.And getting people to talk to each other is the first step in finding a“win-win”result.
生詞
dispute v. 爭論,爭辯:The strikers began to dispute hotly with members of management.罷工者開始和資方人員激烈地爭辯起來?!琩isputant n. 爭論者,爭吵者
peer n. 同等地位的人;同齡人:Comparing students with their peers outside university,they are more likely to have emotional problems.大學生與未讀大學的同齡人相比更容易出現感情問題。
mediate v. 調解,調停:She mediated between the two parties.她斡旋于雙方之間?!琺ediator n. 調解人,調停者
put v. 說,表達:You have put the case clearly.你已經把情況說清楚了。
put down 貶低,羞辱:Tom's latest book has been severely put down in the newspaper reports.新聞報道對湯姆最近的一本書進行了嚴厲的批評。
win-win adj. 雙贏的
1.What can be done when there is a fight at school?
A.The peer mediators and the disputants talk together.
B.The peer mediators decide the winner.
C.The students themselves decide who is the winner.
D.The two students sit down and listen to the peer mediators.
2.Peer mediators' work is________.
A.to give lessons to disputants
B.to help find a way to make both sides happy
C.to find out who starts a quarrel
D.to give students some special training
3.What should you do when the other person is speaking?
A.Try to tell him or her what you think.
B.Think who is right and who is wrong.
C.Listen carefully and look at his or her eyes all the time.
D.Ask the peer mediators as many questions as possible.
4.During the talk,if you say“You are lazy”or“I feel angry”,________.
A.the other person will know he or she is wrong
B.the other person will understand you better
C.it's easy for you to decide who is right
D.it's hard for you to get a“win-win”result
參考譯文
兩個學生在學校吵起來了,一個學生對另一個學生罵了臟話,吵架由此開始。
我們應該采取什么措施來阻止學校發(fā)生類似的事情呢?在某些學校,吵架者和同齡調解人坐到一起。同齡調解人是受過特殊訓練、能處理此類問題的學生。
同齡調解人幫助吵架者以友好的方式進行溝通。下面就是他們使用的一些方法:
1.把你的想法清楚地表達出來,但不要說傷人的話。你應該以“我覺得……”而不是“你總是……”作為開場白。
2.認真傾聽對方。不要打斷他的話。
3.當對方說話時,要看著他或她的眼睛。
4.盡量站在對方的角度看問題。
5.不要污辱任何人。不要說“你很愚蠢”之類的話,這會讓溝通難以進行。
6.盡量找到能讓雙方都滿意的結果。
同齡調解人從不決定最后的結果或誰是贏家。他們不決定誰對誰錯。相反,他們幫助雙方找到“共贏”的結果?!肮糙A”的結果能讓每個人都感到滿意。
同齡調解人的工作常常取得成功,原因就在于它讓人們進行溝通。而溝通是找到“雙贏”結果的第一步。
參考答案
Tuesday 1.A 2.B 3.C 4.D