2. Trust your gut.
When I was growing up I used to love rainy Sunday afternoons watching Columbo, especially the bit at the end where he’d sidle up to the Bad Guy, say “Just one more thing” and then proceed to blow apart the bad guys alibi. Just brilliant.
What Columbo had bundles of was a great trust in his intuition. In every episode, from the very moment he first meets the bad guy, he knows ‘whodunnit’ – and he always trusts that.
So look at what your intuition tells you is the ‘right’ decision for you. Forget about all the “What if’s” and the myriad, tiny details – what is your gut telling you? Listen to your intuition, it knows what it’s talking about.
2.相信自己的直覺(jué)
在漸漸長(zhǎng)大的歲月中我喜歡在下著雨的星期天的下午觀看《神探哥倫布》,特別是放到最后他悄悄的走近壞人然后抓住他們說(shuō)“還有一件事情”然后把犯罪者無(wú)力的辯解駁得體無(wú)完膚并道出他們的罪狀。他看起來(lái)是那樣充滿智慧。他總是對(duì)他的直覺(jué)深信不疑。在每一個(gè)案子中,最初見(jiàn)到犯罪者時(shí)直覺(jué)告訴他“就是這個(gè)人”-----而他總是深信不疑。
那么看一下你的直覺(jué)告訴你哪個(gè)選擇是“正確”的吧。忘掉那些“如果這樣將會(huì)怎樣”和無(wú)數(shù)的微小的細(xì)節(jié)-----你最本質(zhì)的內(nèi)心告訴你什么了?相信你的直覺(jué),他跟你一樣了解整件事情。