個(gè)性互補(bǔ)在一起才幸福？都是扯淡！

Here are some other reasons why opposites don’t attract, according to science and experts:

以下就是科學(xué)和專(zhuān)家研究出來(lái)的異質(zhì)性格的人不會(huì)相互吸引的一些其他原因：

1. People With Similar Personalities Are Happier In Their Relationships

1、性格相似的人在交往中更幸福

A 2014 study of 174 couples conducted by researchers Nathan Hudson and Chris Fraley found that couples who were more alike in personality were more satisfied in their relationships than those who were different.

2014年，研究人員奈登·哈德森和克里斯·雷利對(duì)174對(duì)夫婦進(jìn)行研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，個(gè)性相似的夫妻比個(gè)性不同的夫妻更幸福美滿。

2. People Who Have Great Relationships Share Similar Backgrounds

2、相處融洽的人有相似的背景

As Sean Horan assistant professor in relationship communication at DePaul University told cnn in 2014, people who have really good relationships have similar backgrounds, values and attitudes about things they like and dislike.

2014年，德保羅大學(xué)的人際溝通方面的助理教授肖恩·霍蘭在cnn說(shuō)過(guò)，相處融洽的人有著相似的背景、價(jià)值觀以及對(duì)他們喜歡和不喜歡的東西持有相似的態(tài)度。

3. Similarity Is The Key To A Long-Lasting Relationship

3、相似性對(duì)長(zhǎng)期持久的關(guān)系至關(guān)重要

A 2013 study of eHarmony’s Compatibility Matching System found that even though people with opposite personalities may be attracted to each other at first, the key to a long-lasting relationship is similarity.

2013年，“e和諧”婚戀網(wǎng)站一項(xiàng)兼容配對(duì)系統(tǒng)研究發(fā)現(xiàn)，盡管性格相反的人可能最開(kāi)始會(huì)相互吸引，但一段長(zhǎng)久關(guān)系的關(guān)鍵還是兩人的相似性。