其實(shí)你不懂她：關(guān)于自信女性的8個(gè)誤解

Confident women are amazing, brave, independent, strong and assertive. They know what they want and get it by all means. Before judging confident women, remember these 8misconceptions about strong girls.

自信的女性妙不可言，她們勇敢獨(dú)立、堅(jiān)強(qiáng)果敢。她們知道自己的需求、拼盡全力去追求。對自信的女性評(píng)頭論足前，記得先看看以下八條人們對自信女性的誤讀。

1. They're not sensitive

1、不敏感

Many believe confident women are totally selfish and self-centered. In fact, confident women have weak moments too. They can be as sensitive as any other person can be.

許多人認(rèn)為自信的女性只關(guān)心自己、以自我為中心。事實(shí)上，自信的女子也有脆弱的時(shí)候，她們也和別人一樣敏感。

2. They don't like compliments

2、不愛褒獎(jiǎng)

Any woman – be she strong or weak – loves praises and compliments. Confident women want to be praised and they deserve beautiful words.

所有女性，不論堅(jiān)強(qiáng)還是脆弱，都愛表揚(yáng)與恭維。自信的女子想要褒揚(yáng)，因?yàn)樗齻兣涞蒙涎哉Z稱頌。

3. They know absolutely everything

3、無所不知

Yes, confident women are smart and intelligent but there are something they don't know about. No matter how hard you try, you can't know everything. Confident women are not afraid to accept their mistakes. They learn from them and don't make them twice. Reading is one of their best hobbies but it doesn't mean they are nerds. They are fun and interesting to hang out with.

是的，自信的女子聰慧機(jī)敏，但還是有些東西是她們不知道的。不論你怎樣努力，你都不可能無所不知。自信的女子不怕承認(rèn)她們的錯(cuò)誤，她們從中吸取教訓(xùn)，不再犯第二次。她們愛閱讀，但不是說她們就是書呆子了。和她們一起出去玩很帶勁。

4. They're not afraid of anything

4、無所畏懼

Fear doesn't choose whom to strike. It strikes everyone. Confident women dread to become weak or broken. When a confident woman faces a challenge or a failure, though, she becomes stronger and her faith helps her move mountains and become more successful.

恐懼本身并不會(huì)選擇誰會(huì)收到影響，它影響所有人。自信的女子害怕變脆弱、害怕變得不堪一擊。遇到困難和挑戰(zhàn)時(shí)，她們變得更堅(jiān)強(qiáng)，信念助其排除萬難，走向成功。

5. They don't care about other people's opinions

5、不在意他人觀點(diǎn)

There's a difference between worrying about what others will think or say about you and paying attention to other people's opinions. Confident women do whatever they want to do because they don't let others prevent them from being who they are. Girls with weak willpower, on the contrary, let others control their actions.

擔(dān)憂他人所思所說與在意他人的觀點(diǎn)是有所區(qū)別的。自信的女性做她們想做的事，是因?yàn)椴幌胱寗e人阻止她們做自己。相反，意志力薄弱的女孩讓別人左右自己的行為。

6. They never get hurt.

6、不會(huì)受傷害

Strong women get hurt too. They feel pain – they are not cold. They all have kind hearts. Whether it's someone's death, a breakup or a discharge, they feel it all. They feel lost,frustrated, and depressed.

堅(jiān)強(qiáng)的女性也會(huì)受傷害。她們能感知痛苦，她們并不冰冷。她們都有仁慈的心。如有人身故、分手或遭解雇，她們都會(huì)感知。她們會(huì)迷失、會(huì)受挫也會(huì)情緒低落。

7. They can't love

7、不會(huì)愛

Even though strong women have trouble expressing their true feelings, they can love. They love animals, people, nature and job. They love life. They deserve to be loved. Instead of moaning and judging, boost your own confidence.

盡管厲害的女性表達(dá)真情實(shí)感時(shí)會(huì)有困難，但她們懂得愛。她們愛動(dòng)物、愛人、愛大自然與工作;她們愛生活。她們值得愛。不要自怨自艾、評(píng)頭品足了，鼓起勇氣、增強(qiáng)信心。

8. They're self-absorbed

8、自我沉醉

Just because confident women walk with their heads high and believe in their strength and abilities doesn’t mean they are self-absorbed. Strong women respect others and try to help and inspire them to live a better life.

僅僅因?yàn)樽孕排园菏组煵?、相信自己的能力并不意味著她們自我沉醉。?jiān)強(qiáng)的女性尊重他人，并且?guī)椭恕⒌纤诉^更好的生活。