A man had a little daughter-an only and much-loved child. He lived for her-she was his life.So when she became ill, he became like a man possessed, moving heaven and earth to bring about her restoration to health.
His best efforts, however, proved unavailing and the child died. The father became a bitter recIuse, shutting himself away from his many friends and refusing every activity that might restore his poise and bring him back to his normal self.But one night he had a dream.
He was in heaven, witnessing a grand pageant of all the little child angels. They were marching in a line passing by the Great White Throne.Every white-robed angeIic child carried a candle.He noticed that one child's candle was not lighted.Then he saw that the child with the dark candle was his own little girl.Rushing to her, he seized her in his arms, caressed her tenderly, and then asked,“How is it, darling, that your candle alone is unlighted?”“Daddy, they often relight it, but your tears always put it out.”
Just then he awoke from his dream. The lesson was crystal clear, and its effects were immediate.From that hour on he was not a recluse, but mingled freely and cheerfully with his former friends and associates.No longer would his darling's candle be extinguished by his useless tears.
一個男人有一個可愛的女兒,那是他唯一的孩子,他深深地愛著她,女兒就是他的全部。因此,當(dāng)女兒生病時,他像瘋了一般竭盡全力想讓她恢復(fù)健康。
然而,他所有的努力都無濟于事,女兒還是死了。這位父親從此變得痛苦遁世,避開很多朋友,拒絕參加一切能使他恢復(fù)平靜、回到自我的活動。但在一天夜里,他做了一個夢。
夢里他到了天堂,目睹了小天使們的盛會。小天使們排成一隊經(jīng)過一個白色的大寶座。所有的小天使都身穿白色天使衣,手里拿著一支蠟燭。他注意到有一個小天使的蠟燭沒有點亮。隨后,他認出那個拿著沒有點亮的蠟燭的小天使竟然是自己的女兒。他狂奔過去,一把將女兒抱在懷里,親切地愛撫著她,然后問道:“寶貝兒,為什么只有你的蠟燭沒有點亮呢?”“爸爸,他們經(jīng)常重新幫我點亮蠟燭,可總是讓你的眼淚給熄滅。”
就在這時,他猛地驚醒了過來。這個夢給他上了一課,這一課像水晶般透明,而且有立竿見影的效果。從那時起,他不再消極遁世,而是自由自在、興高采烈地回到以前的朋友和同事中間。而寶貝女兒的蠟燭再也沒有被他那無用的眼淚熄滅過。