雙語 ● 你所記得的一切 All You Remember
■ 你所記得的一切 All You Remember
◎ Debbie Farmer
All you remember about your child being an infant is the incredible awe you felt about the precious miracle you created. You remember having plenty of time to bestow all your wisdom and knowledge. You thought your child would take all of your advice and make fewer mistakes, and be much smarter than you were. You wished for your child to hurry and grow up.
你所記得的，是當(dāng)你的孩子是個(gè)嬰兒時(shí)，你對(duì)自己創(chuàng)造出的堪稱完美奇跡的作品，感到不可思議的敬畏。你記得你有大量的時(shí)間去傳授你所有的智慧和知識(shí)。你認(rèn)為你的孩子將會(huì)接受你所有的忠告而少犯錯(cuò)誤，將會(huì)比孩提時(shí)代的你聰明許多。你多么希望你的孩子快快長大。
All you remember about your child being two is never using the restroom alone or getting to watch a movie without talking animals. You recall afternoons talking on the phone while crouching in the bedroom closet, and being convinced your child would be the first Ivy League college student to graduate wearing pullovers at the ceremony. You remember worrying about the bag of M& M’s melting in your pocket and ruining your good dress. You wished for your child to be more independent.
你所記得的，是孩子2歲時(shí)，從不能獨(dú)自使用衛(wèi)生間，從不看一部與動(dòng)物無關(guān)的電影。你記得那些蜷縮在臥室的壁櫥里與朋友通電話的下午，深信你的孩子將是第一個(gè)身著套頭衫出席畢業(yè)典禮的常春藤名牌大學(xué)畢業(yè)生。你記得你擔(dān)心那袋M＆M巧克力糖會(huì)在你的衣兜里融化，毀了你體面的衣服。你多么希望你的孩子更獨(dú)立些。
All you remember about your child being five is the first day of school and finally having the house to yourself. You remember joining the PTA and being elected president when you left a meeting to use the restroom. You remember being asked “Is Santa real?” and saying “yes” because he had to be for a little bit longer. You remember shaking the sofa cushions for loose change, so the tooth fairy could come and take away your child’s first lost tooth. You wished for your child to have all permanent teeth.
你所記得的，是孩子5歲時(shí)，他開學(xué)的第一天，你終于獨(dú)自擁有整座房子了。你記得參加家長教師聯(lián)系會(huì)，在你離開會(huì)議室去洗手間時(shí)，你當(dāng)選為會(huì)長。你記得孩子問你“圣誕老人是真的嗎？”你回答“是的”，因?yàn)樗€需要你的肯定回答，盡管不久他就能自己判斷了。你記得在沙發(fā)墊下面一通翻騰，要找出些零錢，這樣牙齒仙女就會(huì)帶走你孩子掉的第一顆牙。你多么希望孩子的牙都換成了恒牙。
All you remember about your child being seven is the carpool schedule. You learned to apply makeup in two minutes and brush your teeth in the rearview mirror because the only time you had to yourself was when you were stopped at red lights. You considered painting your car yellow and posting a “taxi” sign on the lawn next to the garage door. You remember people staring at you, the few times you were out of the car, because you kept flexing your foot and making acceleration noises. You wished for the day your child would learn how to drive.
你所記得的，是孩子7歲時(shí)，對(duì)于合伙用車的時(shí)間安排。你學(xué)會(huì)了在2分鐘內(nèi)化完妝，照著汽車的后視鏡刷牙，因?yàn)槟隳芙o自己找出的時(shí)間只有汽車停在紅燈前的那一小段。你想過把你的車子漆成黃色，并在車庫門旁的草坪上立一個(gè)“出租車”的標(biāo)志牌。你記得有幾次在你下車后，人們盯著你，因?yàn)槟悴粩嗟赜媚_踩油門加速，制造噪音。你多么希望孩子有一天能學(xué)會(huì)開車。
All you remember about your child being ten is managing the school fund-raisers. You sold wrapping paper for paint, T-shirts for new furniture, and magazine subscriptions for shade trees in the school playground. You remember storing a hundred cases of candy bars in the garage to sell so the school band could get new uniforms, and how they melted together on an unseasonably warm spring afternoon. You wished your child would grow out of playing an instrument.
你所記得的，是孩子10歲時(shí)，如何組織學(xué)校的募捐者。你們?yōu)橹匦路鬯W(xué)校兜售包裝紙，為購置新家具兜售T恤衫，為在學(xué)校操場上種植遮陽樹勸人訂閱各種雜志。你還記得你在車庫里存放了上百盒糖果等待出售，得到錢后學(xué)校的樂隊(duì)就可以購置新制服，可那些糖果竟在一個(gè)暖和過頭的春天下午全部融化在一起。你多么希望孩子長大，不再演奏什么樂器了。
All you remember about your child being twelve is sitting in the stands during baseball practice and hoping your child’s team would strike out fast because you had more important things to do at home. The coach didn’t understand how busy you were. You wished the baseball season would be over soon.
你所記得的，是孩子12歲時(shí)，在體育場打棒球練習(xí)賽時(shí)，你坐在看臺(tái)上，希望孩子所在的隊(duì)很快三擊不中出局，因?yàn)榧依镞€有更重要的事等你去做。教練不明白你為什么那么忙。你多么希望棒球賽季能盡快結(jié)束。
All you remember about your child being fourteen is being asked not to stop the car in front of the school in the morning. You had to drive two blocks further and unlock the doors without coming to a complete stop. You remember not getting to kiss your child goodbye or talking to him in front of his friends. You wished your child would be more mature.
你所記得的，是孩子14歲時(shí)，他不讓你早晨把汽車停在校門口。你不得不開過兩個(gè)街區(qū)，車還沒停穩(wěn)就趕緊打開車門。你記得沒能在他的朋友面前跟他吻別或說話。你多么希望孩子能更成熟些。
All you remember about your child being sixteen is loud music and undecipherable lyrics screamed to a rhythmic beat. You wished for your child to grow up and leave home with the stereo.
你所記得的，是孩子16歲時(shí)，用吵鬧的音樂和富有節(jié)奏的拍子尖聲唱出難以聽懂的歌詞。你多么希望孩子快點(diǎn)長大成人，帶著音響離開家。
All you remember about your child being eighteen is the day they were born and having all the time in the world.
你所記得的，是孩子18歲時(shí)，他們出生的那一天，擁有世間所有的時(shí)光。
And, as you walk through your quiet house, you wonder where they went and you wish your child hadn’t grown up so fast.
當(dāng)你穿過寂靜的房子時(shí)，你不知道他們?nèi)チ四睦铩愣嗝聪Ｍ?，孩子別這么快就長大。
