今天我們要講的美國(guó)習(xí)慣用語(yǔ)是:make no bones about. Bone是骨頭的意思。Make no bones about就是不管是否會(huì)得罪別人,或是讓別人感到尷尬,都直言不諱的意思。不過(guò)要記住,這里用的是復(fù)數(shù)bones. 我嫂子就是那種有什么說(shuō)什么的人。
上星期天我們?nèi)ゲ宛^吃牛排,服務(wù)員問(wèn)我們是否可口,結(jié)果她毫不客氣地說(shuō)牛排烤過(guò)了頭。She made no bones about complaining how overcooked her steak was. 我就說(shuō)她,你總得給別人留點(diǎn)兒面子吧。不過(guò),有時(shí)候,直言不諱也是很必要的。讓我們聽(tīng)聽(tīng)下面這個(gè)病人去看醫(yī)生的情況。
例句-1: After a complete exam, the doctor gave me her candid advice. She made no bones about the fact that I was working myself to exhaustion. Unless I started taking better care of myself, she said, I was going to have even more serious health problems.
他說(shuō):醫(yī)生給我做了全面檢查后,坦率地告訴我,工作不能太累。她還說(shuō),除非我從現(xiàn)在開(kāi)始好好照顧自己,否則的話,我的身體狀況還會(huì)進(jìn)一步惡化。
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你有沒(méi)有睡不著覺(jué)或是全是乏力的時(shí)候呢?專家說(shuō)啊,日新月異的科技發(fā)展給很多現(xiàn)代人的健康帶來(lái)了負(fù)面影響。我覺(jué)得疲憊的時(shí)候,喜歡聽(tīng)聽(tīng)音樂(lè),或是去做一下按摩。有時(shí)晚上我還會(huì)關(guān)上電視,拔掉電話,如果有人抱怨說(shuō)找不到我,我會(huì)直言不諱地告訴他們,我需要一點(diǎn)自己的空間。I make no bones about telling them that I need some time to myself.
除了工作,有時(shí)家庭也會(huì)給我們帶來(lái)壓力。下面這個(gè)男孩兒的父親對(duì)他有很高的期望,讓我們聽(tīng)聽(tīng)他是怎么說(shuō)的。
例句-2: Ever since I was a boy, my dad has made no bones about wanting me to be a doctor. But now it's time that I was as honest and open with him because I don't have any interest in medicine. I want to study environmental law.
這個(gè)男孩兒說(shuō):從我小時(shí)候起,爸爸就一直明確要求我長(zhǎng)大了當(dāng)醫(yī)生。但是現(xiàn)在,我需要跟他開(kāi)誠(chéng)布公了,因?yàn)槲覍?duì)學(xué)醫(yī)一點(diǎn)兒興趣也沒(méi)有;我想學(xué)的是環(huán)境法。
這種情況恐怕對(duì)很多人都不陌生。做子女的自然想讓父母開(kāi)心,但是在選擇職業(yè)時(shí),他們又不愿意去干自己不喜歡的事。