戀愛物語 怎樣與女孩子交談

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If you’re like a lot of guys, you might stumble a bit when talking to girls. But you don’t have to.
You Will Need
* A girl to talk to
* Listening skills
* Confidence

 

Step 1: Listen to her 認真聽她說話
Actively listen when you’re talking to a girl and focus on what’s important to her.

Step 2: Ask questions 適當?shù)貑栃﹩栴}，以表示你對她感興趣
Ask questions that show you’re interested. Ask her to expand on something she told you about herself.

Maintain eye contact when you’re talking to show you’re interested in her.

Step 3: Ask open-ended questions 問一些開放性的問題，是或否這樣無聊的問題要少問
Ask open-ended questions that might have simple answers, but might also allow you to strike up a conversation.

Avoid questions that have “yes” or “no” answers. You don’t want to play 20 questions.

Step 4: Be confident 要自信，但不要自大
Act confidently, but don’t be cocky. Body language says a lot about confidence, so stand up straight and practice good posture.

Step 5: Talk clearly with strength 談話要顯示出男人的力度，但不要太過
Speak clearly and with authority. This doesn’t mean you should talk like a police officer, but make sure she hears you and can tell you believe what you’re saying. Be direct and to the point.

Showing passion about things you care about is good, but don’t overdo it.

Step 6: Keep the conversation light 避免談論宗教信仰等一些會有爭議的話題
Keep the conversation light while you’re getting to know her. Avoid controversial topics, like religion and politics, and sad or profound topics, like death. Start on a lighter note. You want her to remember you fondly, not as a potential threat.

Step 7: Be yourself 不要虛偽，把真實的你展示給她
Be yourself. That’s who you want her to like.

Did You Know? A study found that of 114 Americans who had been romantically rejected in the eight weeks prior to the study, 40 percent were clinically depressed.