好詩獻(xiàn)給你 第43期:往事如煙 Releasing the Past
往事如煙
Welcome to Faith Radio Online-Simply to Relax, I'mFaith.
歡迎來到Faith輕松電臺(tái)，我是Faith。
Do you condemn yourself for things which you did--or failed to do--in the past? Everyone does this atsome point. However, if you want to lead a successfuland productive life, it is imperative that yourelease the past and not blame yourself for events which have already transpired and whichcannot be changed.
你是否為你曾經(jīng)做過的事，或失敗的事而對(duì)自己耿耿于懷?每個(gè)人都會(huì)在某種程度上有過這種經(jīng)歷。然而，如果你想要一種成功而積極的生活，學(xué)會(huì)釋懷過去，不要為已經(jīng)發(fā)生且無法改變的過去而責(zé)備自己，這一點(diǎn)是非常必要的。
The successful person takes this approach: Learn from past mistakes and make adjustments infuture behavior. The strategy of berating yourself for past conduct solves nothing and onlyserves to lower your self-esteem. You create a vicious cycle where negative experiences andnegative feelings are reinforced, which leads to more negative outcomes and more negativefeelings.
大凡成功的人都會(huì)采取這種作法：從過去的錯(cuò)誤中吸取經(jīng)驗(yàn)教訓(xùn)，并為將來的行為作適當(dāng)?shù)恼{(diào)整。為過去的行為而責(zé)備自己的這種方式并不能解決任何問題，只能挫敗你的自尊心。你因此而制造了一個(gè)惡性循環(huán)，消積的經(jīng)歷和感受并再次被強(qiáng)化，同時(shí)導(dǎo)致了更多的惡性結(jié)果和消積的情感。
If you insist on dwelling in the past, I suggest that you focus on your past successes.Visualizing and thinking about past successes is an excellent way to build confidence and self-esteem. What you think about is what you become. Therefore, when you concentrate on yoursuccesses, you help to create future successes.
如果你堅(jiān)持沉湎于過去，我建議你多想想你過去的成功?；貞涍^去的成功是重建信心和自尊的很好方式。你所想象的也就是你會(huì)最終成為的。因此，當(dāng)你集中精力思考成功時(shí)，你也正在創(chuàng)造將來的成功。
When you find yourself starting to dwell on past negative experiences, immediately halt andremind yourself: "There is nothing I can do now which will change what happened. I learned avaluable lesson and will act in a more constructive manner next time." Regardless of whatyou have done--or failed to do--the only sane approach is to accept it and move forward.
當(dāng)你發(fā)現(xiàn)自己開始沉湎于過去的消積經(jīng)歷時(shí)，立即停止，并提醒自己：“我現(xiàn)在這么做并不能改變已經(jīng)發(fā)生了的過去。我從過去中收獲了寶貴的經(jīng)驗(yàn)，并將會(huì)以更積極地態(tài)度去面對(duì)人生。”不管你曾做過什么，有過何失敗，唯一理智的方式是接受你的過去，并積極前進(jìn)。
This is Faith at Faith Radio Online-Simply to Relax. The successful individual does not wasteprecious mental energy dwelling on past events which cannot be changed. Instead, he or sheuses past mistakes as learning experiences and springboards to future successes.
這里是Faith主持的Faith輕松電臺(tái)。做一個(gè)成功的人，就不要浪費(fèi)寶貴的精力對(duì)無法改變的過去耿耿于懷。相反，我們應(yīng)該視過去為一種學(xué)習(xí)經(jīng)驗(yàn)，和邁向未來成功的跳板。
