你必須控制并導引你的情緒而非摧毀它,況且摧毀情緒是一件不可能的事情。情緒就像河流一樣,你可以筑一道堤 防把它擋起來,并在控制和導引之下排放它,但卻不能永遠抑制它,否則那道堤防遲早會崩潰,并造成大災難。
Your negative emotions can also be controlled and directed. PMA and self-discipline can remove their harmful effects and make them serve constructive purposes. Sometimes fear and anger will inspire intense action. But you must always submit your negative emotions--and you positive ones--to the examination of your reason before releasing them. Emotion without reason is a dreadful enemy.
你的消極心態(tài)同樣也可被控制和導引,積極心態(tài)和自律 可去除其中有害的部分,而使這些消極心態(tài)能為目標貢獻力 量。有的時候恐懼和生氣會激發(fā)出更徹底的行動,但是在你釋放消極情緒(以及積極情緒)之前務必要讓你的理性為它們做一番檢驗,缺乏理性的情緒必然是一位可怕的敵人。
What faculty provides the crucial balance between emotions and reason? It is your willpower, or ego, a subject which will be explored in more detail below. Self-discipline will teach you to throw your willpower behind either reason or emotion and amplify the intensity of their expression.
是什么力量使得情緒和理性之間能夠達到平衡呢?是意志力或自尊心(我將在以下做更詳細的說明)。自律會教導你的意志力作為理性和情緒的后盾,并強化二者的表現(xiàn)強度。
Both your heart and your mind need a master, and they can find the master in your ego. However, your ego will fill their role only if you use self-discipline. In the absence of self-discipline, your mind and heart will fight their battles as they please. In this situation the person within whose mind the fight is carried out often gets badly hurt.
你的感情和理智都需要一位主宰,而在你的自尊心里就可發(fā)現(xiàn)這個主宰,然而只有你在發(fā)揮你的自律精神時,自尊心才會扮演好這個角色,如果沒有了自律,你的理智和感情便會隨心所欲地進行戰(zhàn)爭,戰(zhàn)爭結(jié)果當然是你會受到嚴重的傷害。