生活的唯一敗筆，就是重蹈覆轍

Life is 10% what happens to us and 90% how we react to it. It isn’t about what happens to us but it’s about how we handle what happens. As quoted; "we are who we choose to be" - Green Goblin. Fate govern us in many ways but what effort we are putting to cope with the fate?

發(fā)生在我們身上的事情只占生活中的十分之一，剩下的十分之九是我們的反應(yīng)，重要的不是發(fā)生了什么而是我們?nèi)绾翁幚怼Ｒ蝗缇G惡魔的名言：我們要成為什么樣的人，是我們自己的選擇的。命運(yùn)多方面的操控著我們，但是我們又付出了多少努力來與命運(yùn)抗?fàn)?

Living a good life can be easier if we follow the simplest attributes of living that can make our society better as well. Kindness, gratitude, love and emotions, forgiveness and forgetfulness, patience, sincerity, companionship, respect, care and devotion are some of the factors that can make life pretty easier and admirable.

我們只要遵循最簡(jiǎn)單樸素的真理，就能讓生活變得容易，讓社會(huì)變得更加美好。善良、感激、愛、感情、諒解、不計(jì)較、耐心、真誠(chéng)、陪伴、尊重，關(guān)心和奉獻(xiàn)，這些元素能讓生活更加怡然自得。

Sometimes you cannot even imagine what life brings to you, it becomes impossible for you to handle that particular scenario but the thing that needs to be remembered every time is that if it brings immense happiness to you pay your thanks to the one who has given you the pleasure and if it makes you gloomy then never underestimate an individual power that every person actually have.

有時(shí)候你甚至不能想象生活能給你帶來什么，特殊的場(chǎng)景讓你感覺無所適從。但你只需要記住，要感謝帶給你巨大快樂的人。那些讓你感覺到人生灰暗，也不要低估自己處理這些問題的能力(什么讓你痛苦，什么讓你強(qiáng)大)。

Built that capacity and bring it out. Yes, we all got powers to cope the incidents that brings grief. Because he makes us suffer to that extent we can bear. He never puts us on trials that are impossible to face. And believe me every incident gives us a lesson, which we need! to learn.

要建立這種能力，然后激發(fā)它。我們完全具備應(yīng)付這些事情帶來的負(fù)面情緒，即使有時(shí)這些情緒超出負(fù)荷。生活從來不會(huì)將我們應(yīng)付不來的事情攤派。每件事情的發(fā)生總有它的緣由，給我們的人生上一課。我們要做的只是從中吸取經(jīng)驗(yàn)。

"The only mistake in life is the lesson not learned" - Albert Einstein.

“生活的唯一敗筆，就是我們的重蹈覆轍。”阿爾伯特•愛因斯坦

A small deed of kindness, a small word of love can bring peace. Care, respect and devotion can easily suppress hatred. Patience and sincerity can disrupt disputes. Forgiveness and forgetfulness can do wonders. These smallest human attributes can save this society from envy, abhorrence, disagreements, disloyalty and disrespect.[/en]

一個(gè)小小的善舉，一句簡(jiǎn)單的愛的表達(dá)。關(guān)心、尊重、奉獻(xiàn)能制約內(nèi)心的厭惡。耐心、真誠(chéng)可以瓦解分歧。原諒寬恕可以創(chuàng)造奇跡。這些小小的品質(zhì)能夠讓社會(huì)不陷入嫉妒，憎惡，分歧、不忠、不敬的境地。

We cannot buy these traits from any store or market. Instead it is nature’s gift. We can earn these from prayers and from changing our selves because these are the traits that everyone possess, just need to use them.

這些品質(zhì)我們買不來換不到。這些是與生俱來的。我們可以從祈禱以及改變自我中習(xí)得，原本就屬于我們，只是我們不曾使用而已的屬性。不要把自己和他人做比較，每個(gè)人都有自己的價(jià)值。發(fā)掘?qū)儆谧约旱娜松嬷B，不要帶有(功利)目的生活，找到自己的(熱愛)并將它惠及他人。

Thank you.

感謝