他們還是個(gè)孩子 They Are Just Kids

In China, when children make mistakes, the parents will tell others that they are just kids and want others to forgive their children. It seems so reasonable for small kids to make mistake, because they are young and reckless. While for most parents in western countries, parents take different attitudes towards their kids when they make mistakes. The parents will not have violent act, instead, they will educate the kids and let them realize their bad behavior. I appreciate the foreign parents’ way, as they educate children in the first moment and won’t find excuse for their mistakes. Small age is not the reason to get away from responsibility. If the wrong acts are not corrected immediately, then it is possible for the kids to continue the mistake, someday become big mistakes.

在中國(guó)，當(dāng)孩子犯了錯(cuò)時(shí)，父母都會(huì)跟別人說(shuō)他們還只是孩子，希望別人原諒自己的孩子。這似乎成了孩子們犯錯(cuò)理所當(dāng)然的借口，因?yàn)槟贻p，所以可以無(wú)視后果。而對(duì)于大多數(shù)西方國(guó)家的父母來(lái)說(shuō)，他們對(duì)孩子犯錯(cuò)誤有著不一樣的態(tài)度。西方父母不會(huì)使用暴力行為，相反，他們會(huì)教育孩子，讓他們意識(shí)到自己的不良行為。我很欣賞外國(guó)父母的行為方式，他們會(huì)在第一時(shí)間教育孩子，而不是找借口。年紀(jì)小不是推脫責(zé)任的理由。如果不立即糾正錯(cuò)誤的行為，那么孩子們就又可能會(huì)繼續(xù)犯錯(cuò)誤，總有一天會(huì)犯大錯(cuò)誤。