Friendship 友誼

Making friends is a skill like many other skills. It improves with practice. If you want to meet people and make friends, you must be willing to take some actions. You must first go where there are people. You won’t make friends staying home alone. Join a club or a group. Taking with those who like the same things as you do is much easier. Or join someone in some activities. Many people are nervous when talking to new people. After all meeting strangers means facing the unknown. And it’s human nature to feel a bit uncomfortable about the unknown. Most of our fears about dealing with new people come from doubts about ourselves. We imagine other people are judging us of finding us too tall or to short, too this or too that. But don’t forget that they must be feeling the same way. Try to accept yourself as you are and try to put the other person at ease. You’ll both feel more comfortable.

Try to be self-comfident even if you don’t feel that way. When you enter a room full of strangers, such as a new classroom, walk tall and straight, look directly at other people and smile.

If you see someone you like to speak to, say something . don’t wait for the other person to start a conversation.

Just meeting someone new does not mean that you will make friends with that person-friendship is based on mutual liking and “give and take”. It takes time and effort to develop.

交朋友是一種技巧，像許多其他的技能一樣。它能改善與實(shí)踐。如果你想滿足和人交朋友,你必須愿意采取一些行動(dòng)。你必須首先去有人的地方。你不會(huì)讓朋友獨(dú)自呆在家里。加入一個(gè)俱樂部或一個(gè)隊(duì)。帶著那些喜歡同樣的事情像你要容易得多?；騾⒓右恍┗顒?dòng)的人。新人們說話的時(shí)候,很多人都很緊張。畢竟會(huì)議陌生人意味著面對(duì)未知的問題。這是人的本性,對(duì)未知的感覺有點(diǎn)不舒服。我們大多數(shù)的擔(dān)心處理新朋友來自懷疑自己。我們想象別人評(píng)判我們找到我們太高或短,太這個(gè)或那個(gè)。但不要忘記,他們必須有同樣的感覺。試著接受你自己和你,試著把另一個(gè)人自在。你會(huì)感到更舒適。

盡量自信，即使你沒有這樣的感覺。當(dāng)你進(jìn)入一個(gè)滿是陌生人的地方,比如一個(gè)新教室,走挺拔,直視他人和微笑。

如果你看到你喜歡的人說話,說幾句。不要等到對(duì)方開始談話時(shí)才說。

剛剛遇見一個(gè)新的人并不意味著你會(huì)交朋友,個(gè)人友誼是基于相互喜歡和“給予和獲得”。這需要時(shí)間和精力來培養(yǎng)。