既然是合作,我們?cè)谂c他人合作的時(shí)候,有時(shí)候也必須遷就對(duì)方的意愿,不可能事事都“如己所愿”。即使我們存有保留意見,我們要學(xué)會(huì)“遷就”這門學(xué)問,不能時(shí)時(shí)事事按自己的意愿行事。否則,我們的合作是失敗的,一旦合作失敗,我們就“朋友”變成了“敵人”。失敗的合作是引起“唇槍舌戰(zhàn)”的導(dǎo)火索,甚至是將來“暗箭傷人”的導(dǎo)火索。
今天,我們就來看看“按照別人的意愿辦事”在英文中用一個(gè)有趣的詞語如何來說。我們就先來聽下面的2個(gè)句子:
例句-1:We need the Committee's approval for this scheme. Do you think they'llplay ballwith us.
例句-2:She wanted me to go to Scotland by car with her so that her holiday would cost less, but I wouldnot play ballwith her.
從我們剛才聽到的這2個(gè)句子中,都可以聽到同一個(gè)詞語:play ball。這是一條動(dòng)詞性習(xí)慣用語。習(xí)語中的play是“玩”的意思,ball是指“球”,play ball的意思當(dāng)然就是“打球”了。除了“打球”這個(gè)意思外,它還有作為習(xí)慣用語的意思,意思是to agree to do something the way someone else wants you to(按照某人的意愿行事)。要強(qiáng)調(diào)“按照某人的意愿行事”中的“某人”二字的意思,在短語的后面加上介詞with即可,即:play ball with sb。
我們?cè)偻ㄟ^4個(gè)例句來體會(huì)這個(gè)習(xí)語的意思和運(yùn)用這個(gè)習(xí)語:
1.He is very helpful and it is easy toplay ball withhim.他非常肯幫忙,與他合作很容易。
2.The Congress is refusing toplay ball withthe President on this bill.關(guān)于這項(xiàng)法案,國會(huì)拒絕與總統(tǒng)合作。
3.Look, youplay ball withme and tell me who your boss is, and maybe we can get the judge to take it easy on you.你聽著,你要是現(xiàn)在和我合作,告訴我你的老板是誰,這樣也許我們可以讓法官對(duì)你寬大處理。
附注:take it easy on sb:對(duì)某人款待處理,對(duì)某人要求不苛刻,對(duì)某人要求不嚴(yán)厲
Eg. Take it easy on your son and don't scold him too much.對(duì)你兒子不要操之過急,不要過分責(zé)罵他。
4.To get his programs passed through the congress, a president sometimes has toplay ball withmembers of the opposing party and do them favors in return for their votes.
譯文:作為一個(gè)總統(tǒng), 為了讓國會(huì)通過他的計(jì)劃,有的時(shí)候也不得不和反對(duì)黨的成員合作,給他們一些好處,以換取他們的選票。
附注1:pass through:通過
Eg.He has passed through a college for years but now he is still between the jobs.他已經(jīng)大學(xué)畢業(yè)多年了,但是如今還是沒有找到工作。
附注2:opposing party:反對(duì)黨,(法律)對(duì)方當(dāng)事人
附注3:do sb a favor:給予某人恩惠,給某人好處,幫助某人
Eg.It's sound policy to do a favor before seeking one.先助人后求助是良策。
Eg.Would you do me a favor to translate it into Chinese?你能不能幫忙翻譯成漢語?
附注4:in return:作為回報(bào),作為報(bào)答
Eg. Ibought him a drink in return for his help.我請(qǐng)他喝酒以酬謝他的幫助.
Eg.What do we give them in return?我們以什么來報(bào)答他們呢?
我們現(xiàn)在知道最初聽到的2個(gè)例句中的關(guān)鍵詞語的意思,現(xiàn)在我們就回到它們中來看看他們的意思。
例句-1:We need the Committee's approval for this scheme. Do you think they'll play ball with us?
這句話是說:我們的這項(xiàng)計(jì)劃需要委員會(huì)的同意,你認(rèn)為他們會(huì)和我們合作嗎?
例句-2:She wanted me to go to Scotland by car with her so that her holiday would cost less, but I would not play ball with her.
這句話是說:她想讓我和她一起乘車去蘇格蘭度假,這樣她的度假開支就可以減少,可是我不愿意。
我們今天的這招說Cooperation(合作)—— play ball with sb,意思是按照別人的意愿行事。只要我們心中多一份理解,多一份包容,多一份退讓,我們的合作就可以成功。
最后我們一起來欣賞一首經(jīng)典的英文歌曲。It is named Yesterday Once More. Enjoy it...