16. Dress well.
16.衣著得體
You’re only as good as you feel, and you can only feel good if you look good. Personal hygiene, grooming, and fashion enter into this. Rarely will you find someone well-dressed crying by themselves.
只有自己覺(jué)得好才是好,而只有儀表得體時(shí)才會(huì)自我感覺(jué)不錯(cuò)。這包括個(gè)人衛(wèi)生、儀容和服裝。你很少遇見(jiàn)衣著講究的人大喊大叫的。
17. Enjoy sadness.
17.享受悲傷
John Keats said that in the “temple of delight melancholy has her sovran shrine.” In other words, at the heart of every joy is a glimmer of sadness waiting to shine through. The same goes for sadness—within every pain is a reversal of fortune that will lead you to feel happy again. So when those moments come, enjoy them. They won’t last long.
約翰濟(jì)慈說(shuō)過(guò)“在快樂(lè)居住的殿堂里面,隱匿的憂(yōu)郁有一至尊的偶像。”換句話(huà)說(shuō),快樂(lè)的中心是一絲憂(yōu)郁等待發(fā)光。反過(guò)來(lái)也一樣,悲傷的中心是運(yùn)勢(shì)的轉(zhuǎn)換,引領(lǐng)你再次走向快樂(lè)。所以,悲傷來(lái)臨時(shí),學(xué)會(huì)享受,它不會(huì)待很久的。
18. Eat well.
18.吃得營(yíng)養(yǎng)
You are what you eat, so if you’re stuffing yourself with cheeseburgers and hot dogs every day, chances are you are overweight and you lack energy and mental clarity. Instead, make sure to eat enough fruit and vegetables, protein and carbohydrates—and indulge in moderation.
人如其食,所以如果你每天都吃奶酪堡和熱狗,那么很有可能你很胖,并且缺乏活力和清醒的頭腦。相反,每天應(yīng)該多吃蔬菜和水果,攝入足夠的蛋白質(zhì)和碳水化合物——適量最好。
19. Keep in touch with your friends and family.
19.常和家人朋友保持聯(lián)絡(luò)
Your family—in most cases—loves you unconditionally. It’s important to keep in touch with them, whether it’s a weekly phone call or an annual visit. Friends too help to inspire and support happy people. Take time out of your week to communicate with them.
大多數(shù)情況下,家人對(duì)你的愛(ài)是無(wú)條件的。不論是一周通一次電話(huà)還是一年回家探望一次,和家人保持聯(lián)絡(luò)是非常重要的。朋友也是幸福之人的鼓勵(lì)與支持。所以每周花點(diǎn)時(shí)間和他們交流交流吧。
20. Be alone.
20.享受獨(dú)處
The happiest person is comfortable spending time by himself. That’s because he loves himself. A lot. He is just as comfortable spending an entire day alone as he is spending it with someone else. You should be too.
最幸福的人十分享受獨(dú)處的時(shí)間,因?yàn)樗浅?ài)自己。自己獨(dú)處和與別人相處一樣舒適愉快。你也應(yīng)該學(xué)會(huì)享受獨(dú)處。