雙語：狗狗中的社交智慧

1. Fearlessly Work a Room1.

1.大膽出動(dòng)

Dogs are strangers to one another, but they instantly meet and greet those around them. They know how to fearlessly work a room. Try to be open and free-spirited like a golden retriever. Just walk up, say hi, and introduce yourself to anyone who will listen. You don't have to lick their faces。

狗狗們互相都是陌生人，但它們?cè)谝娒鏁r(shí)會(huì)主動(dòng)地去打招呼。他們知道該如何大膽出動(dòng)。試著像一只黃金獵犬一樣自由奔放吧。走上前，說嗨，向每個(gè)人做自我介紹，你用不著舔他們的臉。

2. Be Friendly and Playful2.

2.讓自己友好而有趣。

Dogs, after a few initial sniffs, begin to play together, chasing one another, and rolling over in the dirt. Don't hang back waiting for other people to make the first move. Once you sense there is some common ground and you're not likely to get your head bitten off, engage. Invite them for golf or a ball game. Get in some social activity。

狗狗們?cè)谙嗷ヂ劻藥紫潞缶蜁?huì)開始一起玩、追逐打鬧、在泥地里打滾。不要干等著別人邁出第一步。一旦你發(fā)現(xiàn)你和其他人有共同點(diǎn)，而你又不好意思開口的時(shí)候，要逼自己這么做。邀請(qǐng)對(duì)方一起打一場高爾夫或是打個(gè)球，做一些社交活動(dòng)。

3. Work That Body

3.巧用肢體

Dogs are excellent at using body language to convey a point. Body language is as much about seeing what's going on with others as it is about projecting yourself. That's what makes dogs so good at getting our attention and avoiding conflict. We rely so often on our words to communicate with others, but make sure to give thought to your body movements, your eye contact, your appearance and your vibe。

狗狗很善于使用肢體語言來傳遞信息。肢體語言對(duì)于了解對(duì)方的想法和表達(dá)自己的想法都是非常重要的。這也是為什么狗狗們?nèi)绱松朴谖覀兊淖⒁夂捅苊鉀_突。我們太過依賴和別人的語言交流，但也應(yīng)該多考慮一下肢體活動(dòng)、眼神交流、儀容儀表和整個(gè)氛圍。

4. Make 'em Laugh

4.逗別人笑

Dogs win us over with humor because they make us laugh at the things they do, the expressions they display and the way their tongues hang out. No need to take yourself so seriously. Use humor to your advantage。狗狗用幽默征服了我們，因?yàn)樗鼈兊男袨?、表現(xiàn)和聲音總是讓我們?nèi)炭〔唤２灰^嚴(yán)肅，讓幽默成為你的優(yōu)勢(shì)。

5. Share a Meal5.

5.分享大餐

Dogs bond with people over food. They will be your best friend if you engage them with a treat. You can't necessarily snack your way into friendships, but buying someone a drink or bonding over a meal is a great way to develop a relationship。

狗狗和人類的關(guān)系由食物所維系。如果你能給它們好吃的，它們就會(huì)成為你的好朋友。你不能指望吃的能為你帶來友誼，但經(jīng)常給別人買點(diǎn)飲料或是請(qǐng)他們吃頓飯是發(fā)展關(guān)系的一個(gè)絕佳方式。

6. Be Expressive

6.要善于表現(xiàn)

Dogs can be verbally expressive, even without words. They'll bark, whimper, growl and yawn. They don't hide anything--they make their feelings and needs known. Try the same thing. Let others know exactly how you feel and you may just get some useful and honest feedback。

狗狗雖然不會(huì)說話，但它們的語言還是非常具有表現(xiàn)力。它們會(huì)叫、嗚咽、咆哮和打哈欠。它們不會(huì)掩飾任何事——狗狗會(huì)把它們的感受和需求都表現(xiàn)出來。你可以試著做同樣的事。讓別人知道你現(xiàn)在是什么感覺，這樣你或許能得到一些誠懇有用的回復(fù)。

7. Show Some Enthusiasm

7.表現(xiàn)出激情

Dogs expend a lot of energy in running and jumping all over the place. They are very active and lively. Enthusiastically share your passion for life and people when communicating. Your joyfulness may actually become infectious。

狗狗們總是到處跑來跑去跳來跳去，顯得充滿了能量。它們非常積極活潑。在交流時(shí)你應(yīng)該熱情地與別人分享你對(duì)生活的激情。你的這種喜悅是會(huì)傳染的。